The Teen Mother star shares whether or not he and Catelynn in the end determined to observe their adoption counselor’s recommendation to cease reaching out, whereas additionally claiming they acquired their adoption file, which he described as “extra surprising than we anticipated.”
Tyler Baltierra is giving an replace to Teen Mother followers concerning his and his spouse Catelynn’s drama with their daughter Carly’s adoptive dad and mom.
On Thursday’s episode of Teen Mother: The Subsequent Chapter, Tyler and Catelynn sat down with their adoption counselor Daybreak, to debate the scenario, with the couple saying that it is “not honest” how they’re allegedly being handled by daughter Carly’s adoptive dad and mom, Brandon and Teresa Davis. The dialog ended with Daybreak in the end suggesting Catelynn and Tyler take a “pause” from their makes an attempt to get involved with Carly.
The following day, Tyler shared a press release on his Instagram Tales, through which he opened up in regards to the scenario. He revealed to followers that he and Catelynn agreed to take Daybreak’s “recommendation,” suggesting they have not tried to contact Carly for the reason that episode was filmed final fall.
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“Adoption Replace: Now we have taken Dawns recommendation & have since stopped sending presents & updates,” he started within the prolonged assertion. “All we are able to do now could be proceed to share our perspective, expertise & fact as birthparents. All we are able to do now could be proceed to advocate for the minority group of adoptees.”
Tyler shared that he and Catelynn created an electronic mail account for his or her daughter to allow them to ship messages to her to probably learn sooner or later.
“We began an electronic mail for Carly & we write to it typically, in order that method when she’s older & if/when she reaches out, we can provide her the password for her to learn at her discretion,” he wrote. “We solely need her to have what we consider she deserves and that is the reality.”
Tyler then stated that he and Catelynn had “simply acquired our complete adoption file” from when Brandon and Tyler adopted Carly, claiming that the “particulars are much more surprising than we anticipated.”
“We solely need what Carly needs, even when which means her wanting nothing to do with us, which we have said from the start,” he continued.
“Adoption begins with trauma & loss for the infant, which is the one one who really issues since they’re essentially the most affected by it,” he added. “So all we are able to do is proceed to unfold adoption consciousness & that is what we are going to do.”
“I need to thank the entire help we have acquired from the adoptee group, your voice issues greater than any & I promise we are going to do all the pieces we are able to to assist elevate that voice!” Tyler concluded.
Brandon and Teresa adopted Carly when she was only a child, as proven on MTV’s 16 and Pregnant. Although they opted for an open adoption and allowed the Baltierras to have contact with Carly through the years, these visits have dramatically lowered in recent times — in line with Catelynn and Tyler.
The couple claimed final season that Brandon and Teresa had stopped speaking with them by way of textual content after they allegedly refused to allow them to see their daughter on her fifteenth birthday.
Thursday’s episode confirmed the fallout from Catelynn venting on social media about allegedly being left on learn by the Davises, with Cate sharing that Teresa supposedly texted her, “The way in which that you simply talk about us on-line was very hurtful, so we’re not going to be responding.”
Whereas this episode was filmed months in the past, Catelynn instructed TooFab forward of the season premiere that they continue to be “blocked.”
“There hasn’t been any enchancment. We’re nonetheless blocked. I nonetheless don’t have any method of speaking with them, even when I wished to. So no, it is nonetheless the identical,” she stated.
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The 32-year-old admitted that it has been “actually onerous” not to have the ability to converse to their daughter, sharing that it is “positively introduced up numerous PTSD” for her and Tyler.
Catelynn and Tyler acquired some criticism from followers after they took to social media in actual time to share their frustrations with Brandon and Teresa whereas final season was airing. Regardless of this, Catelynn stated she believes being on the MTV actuality present hasn’t damage the scenario, however relatively held Carly’s adoptive dad and mom “accountable.”
“Actually, a part of me says that I feel that if we weren’t on the present, I feel they’d’ve lower off contact a very long time in the past,” she instructed TooFab. “I feel the present has type of perhaps needed to maintain them slightly bit accountable for what they promised.”
“I really consider that,” she continued. “I imply, often, when a beginning dad or mum decides on an open adoption, most open adoptions shut throughout the first 5 years, and that is not as a result of the beginning dad and mom need it to occur, it is as a result of the adoptive dad and mom simply do it. So I do suppose, you understand, it’s perhaps, I feel that they’d’ve lower it off a very long time in the past, truthfully, and never for Carly’s sake, I feel for their very own, however that is simply my private opinion.”
Teen Mother: The Subsequent Chapter airs Thursdays on MTV.
